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by wizerdwolf
Thu May 07, 2020 12:48 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: No motivation or drive?
Replies: 7
Views: 420

Re: No motivation or drive?

When I'm getting lots of exercise and eating well, my sex drive is higher. If I'm not moving very much, and eating food that slows down my metabolism (deep fried foods, etc) then my drive is lower. If I eat food that upsets my stomach (super spicy, cheese, nuts, YMMV) I don't really want to toy. Al...
by wizerdwolf
Sat May 02, 2020 3:58 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: No motivation or drive?
Replies: 7
Views: 420

Re: No motivation or drive?

Have you had any issues with sex drive with your partner, or only when toying? If the former, you should talk with your doctor. If its the latter, and it bothers you this much, it might not have a bad idea to talk with your doctor as well. My bf and I don't play too much with each other (not a driv...
by wizerdwolf
Fri May 01, 2020 5:26 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: No motivation or drive?
Replies: 7
Views: 420

Re: No motivation or drive?

There are more factors that go into sex drive than anyone really knows. Stress is a major factor. Diet and changes in lifestyle also are big ones. Then your body's hormones and chemicals will always play a role of course. If its less than 2 months, I wouldn't worry to much about it. Next week you m...
by wizerdwolf
Wed Apr 29, 2020 5:28 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: No motivation or drive?
Replies: 7
Views: 420

No motivation or drive?

So, I'm wondering how other people handle not having the desire or motivation to toy and train? I have my long-term goals of being able to hilt my XL Chance and future, larger toys, and these are things I still very much want to do, but for the past several months I've just not really felt the desir...
by wizerdwolf
Mon Aug 19, 2019 3:26 am
Forum: Sharing Experiences
Topic: The Sessions Lounge~
Replies: 2442
Views: 258963

Re: The Sessions Lounge~

So I hit something of a minor landmark for myself with the session I just had... I ended up toying with my thinner (1.75" diameter) double ended dildo, thicker different size ends (2.0 and 2.25-2.5-ish) double ended, and my M Wuffamute. The first double ended dildo is getting easier and easier ...
by wizerdwolf
Tue Mar 05, 2019 9:25 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Shipping to universities?
Replies: 2
Views: 370

Re: Shipping to universities?

Bit late of a reply, and hopefully you've already figured it out at this point, but I ordered my first two BD toys while I still lived in my college dorm. I just checked that 6 year old invoice, and I didn't need to include the university name, only the PO address and box #. Now, if you're still con...
by wizerdwolf
Sat Jan 05, 2019 4:26 am
Forum: Sharing Experiences
Topic: ★Important XL toy advice + Review: XL Sleipnir and XL Stan, Anal!!★
Replies: 15
Views: 7244

Re: ★Important XL toy advice + Review: XL Sleipnir and XL Stan, Anal!!★

...If you want dedicated trainers check out SquarPeg toys. My fav of theirs is slink. Another site with some possible trainers might be siliconnozzle.com... They also are a fantastic resource for most of your cleaning need I recommend checking them out The slink definitely looks like it would be an...
by wizerdwolf
Sat Jan 05, 2019 4:24 am
Forum: Sharing Experiences
Topic: ★Important XL toy advice + Review: XL Sleipnir and XL Stan, Anal!!★
Replies: 15
Views: 7244

Re: ★Important XL toy advice + Review: XL Sleipnir and XL Stan, Anal!!★

You seem to be in the right path... a Chance in large or a Tyson XL might help, also soft might help bend around the curves. The rest is patience and training... Thanks for the input! I have considered getting an XL Tyson, but haven't yet due to a tight budget. Tried to get one on Black Friday, but...
by wizerdwolf
Thu Jan 03, 2019 11:52 pm
Forum: Sharing Experiences
Topic: ★Important XL toy advice + Review: XL Sleipnir and XL Stan, Anal!!★
Replies: 15
Views: 7244

Re: ★Important XL toy advice + Review: XL Sleipnir and XL Stan, Anal!!★

I s'pose this thread has already been necroed, and it seems relevant, so I'll ask this here. How can I get to being able to take my XL Chance deeper? Its the longest toy I own and with the largest shaft girth (the Winston's Tail is thicker at the base, Rex and Wuffamute have knots that make them thi...
by wizerdwolf
Tue Apr 24, 2018 9:44 pm
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Bad Dragon Waiting Syndrome :P
Replies: 11046
Views: 663312

Re: Bad Dragon Waiting Syndrome :P

Eeep, shipping label for my XL Chance was printed Friday, according to the UPS tracker, but has yet to be put out to ship. Fortunately, it's not like I'll have time to use it till my next weekend anyway, which starts Sunday, so *jumps excitedly*
by wizerdwolf
Sun Apr 15, 2018 3:49 am
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Bad Dragon Waiting Syndrome :P
Replies: 11046
Views: 663312

Re: Bad Dragon Waiting Syndrome :P

Knowing full and well that it will probably take a while, I have been eagerly checking the status of the order order I placed 9 days for my new XL Chance almost daily. I AM SO EXCITE!!! This has been a toy I've wanted to get for years, and I felt it was finally time. Will take a very long time till ...
by wizerdwolf
Tue Dec 19, 2017 8:54 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Depth Training Help?
Replies: 8
Views: 886

Re: Depth Training Help?

KnotyDes wrote:
wizerdwolf wrote:how expensive is stuff at that nozzle website?

Sorry for late response. Siliconenozzle is reasonably priced for silicone pruducts. The really long stuff gets expensive, but were talking things that are 24"+ in lenght.


Aah, alright. Thanks again!
by wizerdwolf
Thu Dec 14, 2017 3:39 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Depth Training Help?
Replies: 8
Views: 886

Re: Depth Training Help?

That changes thing a good bit. :smile: just keep practicing. I didn't think I would get into depth play until I felt what it was like having 12"+ of toy in me. So yeah good luck with that. I forgot to mention this but you might want to check out Siliconenozzle.com as the name says they sell no...
by wizerdwolf
Thu Dec 14, 2017 2:41 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Depth Training Help?
Replies: 8
Views: 886

Re: Depth Training Help?

My double ended dildo is about 2.5" diameter, and I guestimate it only goes 6-7 inches deep. I would take a step back from a 2.5" toys. To train your depths. Just because your anus can take something 2.5"+ thick does not mean to opening to the sigmoid colon can. You should really sta...
by wizerdwolf
Thu Dec 14, 2017 12:40 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Depth Training Help?
Replies: 8
Views: 886

Re: Depth Training Help?

how thick is your double ended dildo and how much can you take? I started with a 1.5" and then moved onto a 1.75" in a year of off and on play without much trouble, but that was years ago. one method i used to help me take things deep is by pumping some liquid inside of me then pushing th...
by wizerdwolf
Wed Dec 13, 2017 9:42 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Depth Training Help?
Replies: 8
Views: 886

Depth Training Help?

Been a while since I've chatted in here, but I've managed to narrow down that my major issue is that I can't seem to get things very deep. My legacy Medium Chance I can't quite get to the sheath, and this new 18" double ended dildo I got I can't even take half of! For some reason, it just seems...
by wizerdwolf
Thu Sep 01, 2016 8:41 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: How to Regain Toying Motivation?
Replies: 14
Views: 1096

Re: How to Regain Toying Motivation?

Please keep in mind that my advice is subjective and that I'm not a doctor. I've just done a TON of research on this. I'm going to approach this from as many different angles as possible, so please excuse if this is long winded. Firstly, different people respond to stress in different ways. I get s...
by wizerdwolf
Wed Aug 31, 2016 2:44 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: How to Regain Toying Motivation?
Replies: 14
Views: 1096

Re: How to Regain Toying Motivation?

Alone, nope, but it will help! Getting motivation (or even libido) to toy is a task based on what is causing you to be stressed/depressed, by reducing any symptoms you have, you will gradually regain some of the motivation and fun you had in toying. :nomnom: It kind of sucks that it's not a quick s...
by wizerdwolf
Wed Aug 31, 2016 8:10 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: How to Regain Toying Motivation?
Replies: 14
Views: 1096

Re: How to Regain Toying Motivation?

Vitani wrote:OH! haha my bad.
Well I wish you the best of luck in gettin' your mojo back anyhow. :nomnom:


Okay, thank you very much.
by wizerdwolf
Wed Aug 31, 2016 8:09 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: How to Regain Toying Motivation?
Replies: 14
Views: 1096

Re: How to Regain Toying Motivation?

Sounds like you could have mild depression. Go look up the non-drug based treatments and try some of those. They include: stress management, getting more sun (thus more Vitamin D production), stay away from bright lights after dark (improves quality of sleep), try to get a lot of light when you wak...

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