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by Shardik
Tue Apr 16, 2013 7:18 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Explaining to my parents...
Replies: 33
Views: 2657

Re: Explaining to my parents...

In your signature you’ve written that you’re BI, bisexual people being bisexual find both males and females sexually attractive, having had first hand experience of feeling an attraction to both sexes means that said person can identify with someone being attracted to a man, and someone being attra...
by Shardik
Mon Apr 15, 2013 8:20 pm
Forum: Sharing Experiences
Topic: Once you've pigged out on Clayton XL's width...
Replies: 7
Views: 3490

Once you've pigged out on Clayton XL's width...

Once you've pigged out on Clayton XL's width...

... there's really no place left to go but a Moko, is there? Either that or a Gryphon for depth.

Decisions, decisions.

*Sigh*
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 9:58 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Maybe a silly question to some but..... ?
Replies: 42
Views: 3034

Re: Maybe a silly question to some but..... ?

Music, that is the coolest illustration I've seen yet to help define those terms to people. But good gods, trying to explain this to people who've bought into the whole hyperheteronormative thing is still impossible.
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 9:40 pm
Forum: General Discussion Archive
Topic: Spreadsheet of toy sizes
Replies: 23
Views: 6168

Re: Spreadsheet of toy sizes

This makes me feel better. I had made a bare bones spreadsheet of the 8 toy models I liked the most while I was trying to chose one to order. My best friend was teasing me. I also had included the dimensions of a can of soda and my largest man-shaped toy for a better idea on size. We're geeks! Numb...
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 9:38 pm
Forum: General Discussion Archive
Topic: Spreadsheet of toy sizes
Replies: 23
Views: 6168

Re: Spreadsheet of toy sizes

Thank you all so much for this. I'm blown away by the fact that there's no overlap between the L and XL Mokos-- a L Moko's maximum width is smaller than the XL head! I still want a Moko. I just don't know whether to get the L or XL. (I also want a Gryphon, but that's going to be XL/3 all the way.) I...
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 12:40 pm
Forum: General Discussion Archive
Topic: Death of a Lover
Replies: 14
Views: 1811

Re: Death of a Lover

[quote="Ferrix"]/comfort I'm sorry for your loss.[quote] Yeah, me too. I once lost a lot of (pre-BD) toys to a rat that snuck into my garage. We'd moved from an apartment into a house one January, and a lot of boxes were left out in the garage. A rat snuck into my toybox and chewed up, gri...
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 12:07 pm
Forum: General Discussion Archive
Topic: It doesn't add up to what most people think
Replies: 11
Views: 1260

Re: It doesn't add up to what most people think

They're not inherently comparable. The Real Deal is attached to a man I'm in love with. Toys are a hunk of silicone. They're a tool I use to achieve personal pleasure. If all I want is that personal pleasure then there is no point in having sex, as it's about a hell of a lot more than that. Yeah, t...
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 12:06 pm
Forum: General Discussion Archive
Topic: It doesn't add up to what most people think
Replies: 11
Views: 1260

Re: It doesn't add up to what most people think

oh but I digress. Im sure I sound silly. My entire point was that in a night of ridiculousness I found myself missing my collection. In the end, the answer is always,"NO. DRAGON DICKS." sober or not. Obviously, the solution is to find someone you like who shares your taste in dragon dick....
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 11:58 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Question about lubricant
Replies: 3
Views: 472

Re: Question about lubricant

Anything water-based should be fine =) but silicone-based is overkill for toys. Silicone-based lubes are bad for BD toys. It'll melt 'em. Don't use it. Oil-based lubes are pretty good, but make sure you wash your toys thoroughly afterward, because oil-based lubes will do to oil-based (latex or rubb...
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 11:52 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Some questions about bad dragon stuff.
Replies: 6
Views: 679

Re: Some questions about bad dragon stuff.

Another is the suction cup. I know you can stick it on a mirror wall or a bathroom. Butt what else can it stick to? Pretty much anything with a smooth, flat surface. Kitchen floors, dining room tables, windows, television sets, you name it. (I was at a sex party once and the TV was on in the break ...
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 11:26 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Is it wrong?
Replies: 57
Views: 4980

Re: Is it wrong?

SnowLycan wrote:Is it wrong to lose you virginity to a toy?


No. Masturbation ought to be having sex with someone you love.
by Shardik
Sun Apr 14, 2013 11:25 am
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Will using toys .......?
Replies: 33
Views: 1951

Re: Will using toys .......?

I was wondering will using B.D toys or any kinda of sex toy ruin the tightness of say your vagina of anus if used often? Just a little curious? :oops: No, it won't. Both are surrounded by sheathes of muscle, and muscle, if you don't tear it, reacts to stress by becomnig both more flexible and stron...
by Shardik
Sat Apr 13, 2013 2:38 pm
Forum: Sharing Experiences
Topic: Do You Plan A Toy Date?
Replies: 29
Views: 3021

Re: Do You Plan A Toy Date?

I have to. There's no alternative. I have a family. I have to have the time to prep, play, and clean up, and so I have to schedule it for when they're both out of the house. Fortunately, everyone here uses an on-line calendar to keep track of our busy lives, so I can just make secret scheduling even...
by Shardik
Fri Apr 12, 2013 8:24 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Explaining to my parents...
Replies: 33
Views: 2657

Re: Explaining to my parents...

"Mom, think about Dad. But think about him having a vagina and not a penis. Would you marry him? That's how I feel about boys. It's that kind of reaction." I don't understand what you're trying to say here O____O My immediate thought was "hm, if my partner had a vagina? Yeah I'd stil...
by Shardik
Wed Apr 10, 2013 10:58 pm
Forum: General Discussion Archive
Topic: How many is too many?
Replies: 83
Views: 6821

Re: How many is too many?

Best not to buy more if you can't afford more. lol I have amassed quite a collection myself. I love them I do too, and I hope to amass a large and wonderful collection. I used to have a great collection of Falcon and Mr. S dildos, back when that was all we had in the fetish community (and we liked ...
by Shardik
Wed Apr 10, 2013 10:52 pm
Forum: General Discussion Archive
Topic: Where and how do YOU store your toys?
Replies: 273
Views: 29172

Re: Where and how do YOU store your toys?

Since I have kids, I store them in a locked piece of underbed luggage. I've taken to wrapping all of the major ones in pillowcases (99 cents each at the local second-hand store) to protect them from each other, since I have a few TSX and Mr. S rubber dildos as well, and silicon and rubber tend to at...
by Shardik
Wed Apr 10, 2013 10:43 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Um... Embarassing Personal
Replies: 16
Views: 1577

Re: Um... Embarassing Personal

So... I have this issue. It's not exclusive to bad-dragon toys, it's been ever since I started having sex at all. But when I... have too much vaginal stimulation (as in too fast) I start to have sort of... emotional surge? Often times if I continue after the feeling starts, then I start to cry, som...
by Shardik
Wed Apr 10, 2013 10:40 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Decision and Debate, Xar vs Crackers
Replies: 2
Views: 482

Re: Decision and Debate, Xar vs Crackers

Start with a medium Xar. He's super easy to get to the knot. Get him in a three if you are unsure if you can take him or not. I normally can only handle small toys, and I ADORE my soft medium Xar. Even though I cant use him on a regular basis. Then get yourself a medium crackers. Crackers is harder...
by Shardik
Wed Apr 10, 2013 10:32 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Explaining to my parents...
Replies: 33
Views: 2657

Re: Explaining to my parents...

"Mom, think about Dad. But think about him having a vagina and not a penis. Would you marry him? That's how I feel about boys. It's that kind of reaction."
by Shardik
Mon Apr 08, 2013 10:33 pm
Forum: Community Help and FAQs
Topic: Anal Sex advice thread
Replies: 2449
Views: 316165

Re: Anal Sex advice thread

Okay. So tonight I engaged in a weird conversation with my family (more them talking and me just shutting up) about anal. And it went along the lines of how it's bad for you/ exit only and how gay men will end up in nappies when they're 'old farts'.. So, I'm an old fart, if "late 40s" cou...

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