Some background
My first toy is a medium unflared Chance in medium firmness in rouge.
I chose Chance because I love the design, and I chose medium size and firmness because it was my first actual toy so I had no idea what I liked. The first time I used Chance, I was actually kind of disappointed because I could take him fully with pretty much no problem. I soon got over it though when I learned how to use him properly. I thoroughly enjoy chance, but I do have a few things that I would like to try in my next toy. The biggest thing that I want to try is the “firm” firmness, because when I am trying to insert chance, I often have trouble because of how long and floppy he is. The second biggest thing is I feel like I can go bigger. The third (and least important) thing is I am somewhat interested in trying out a knot on my next toy.
My second toy is Gala in Natural.
I chose Gala, like chance, because I love the design (she is my favorite BD design. Yay sharks!

So, now that that’s out of the way, here are my questions for those of you with more experience than me.
1. Should I try the “firm” firmness on my next insertable?
2. What would be a reasonable jump in size for an insertable compared to a medium chance?
3. Should I look into a new mastebator to solve my problem, or am I just doomed to fail?
Most importantly what toy recommendations would you make? I’d like to think that I am pretty open when it comes to the BD designs. However, I do have some that I dislike. The designs that I probably won’t ever get are: Demogorgon, Hunter, Ridley, and Xar. The designs that I’m not a huge fan of but would probably still get with some convincing: Zaratan, Ika, Kage, Stan, Hanns, Glyph, Hazel, and Natascha. I am just looking for the best fit for me.
Thank you so much for reading! Any feedback is greatly appreciated!