Kami123 wrote:I don't get it. Why don't they give us an update on the forums situation? Why don't they just tell us that the forums are abandoned by the staff (no link, no search engine entry) and will be defunct soon? Why don't they just tell us right in our faces what is going on or what is planned for this place? What keeps them from telling us the truth about everything, about the Second Hand area closure, the removal of links to hide the existence of these forums, the BD labs state?
Just tell us the truth. Once.
My Cyber Monday purchase this year might be my final penetrable from BD. The forums helped me and many others a lot and were a safe haven for the 'lewd' part of us. I cannot write about my kink anywhere else. BD forums are / were the place for me. Seeing the forums die also means seeing my activity / my will to buy BD penetrables fade.
I know the staff is very busy at the moment. I will not argue against that.
However, there is a word for what the staff does to us in german: "Hinhaltetaktik" - delaying tactics.
They DID recently post here on the forums looking for feedback on the BD labs, and are planning on remaking them or revamping it or whatever.
I know I saw someone posting that they heard the forums are gonna be updated too, but I haven't actually seen that be said by a staff member, so I dunno.
I wish it was more clear what was going on, haha.