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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Thu Jun 14, 2018 10:01 pm

KnotyDes wrote:
Get a Slink from SquarePeg. The thing is fucking amazing. I have never had a depth toy that feels this good while remaining comfortable and easy to use. I could take 18-20" before i got my XXL Slink and I almost hilted the thing during my first session so about 21-22". After 3 session with the thing I can take all 23" of the thing without any issues or any warm up, other than clean out. I know all the slinks are pricy but man is it worth it.


I could swear I mentioned earlier that I have my 23 slink, but I want to get to that 38. Only problem is that I can't decide between the two. I know square peg is great and all, but I also hear good things about the tonguetacle by primal hardware.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby KnotyDes » Thu Jun 14, 2018 10:19 pm

FinalVerse wrote:
KnotyDes wrote:
Get a Slink from SquarePeg. The thing is fucking amazing. I have never had a depth toy that feels this good while remaining comfortable and easy to use. I could take 18-20" before i got my XXL Slink and I almost hilted the thing during my first session so about 21-22". After 3 session with the thing I can take all 23" of the thing without any issues or any warm up, other than clean out. I know all the slinks are pricy but man is it worth it.


I could swear I mentioned earlier that I have my 23 slink, but I want to get to that 38. Only problem is that I can't decide between the two. I know square peg is great and all, but I also hear good things about the tonguetacle by primal hardware.

i have a bad memory. :doh:
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Sat Jun 16, 2018 3:49 am

Oh my God, so I decided to pick up some baseballs and a softball thinking I could take them. Let me tell you right now, what a stretch! I made some beads out of baseballs and a single bead out of the softball. The baseballs being hard were harder to insert, but the softball required me pushing up against something to open up and once it was in, it was only coming out with the cord, no pushing would do it...

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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby KnotyDes » Sat Jun 16, 2018 10:11 am

FinalVerse wrote:Oh my God, so I decided to pick up some baseballs and a softball thinking I could take them. Let me tell you right now, what a stretch! I made some beads out of baseballs and a single bead out of the softball. The baseballs being hard were harder to insert, but the softball required me pushing up against something to open up and once it was in, it was only coming out with the cord, no pushing would do it...

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you crazy :laugh: :laugh:

how big around is a softball btw?

also aren't the seams uncomfortable on the baseballs/softballs.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Sat Jun 16, 2018 4:21 pm

KnotyDes wrote:you crazy :laugh: :laugh:

how big around is a softball btw?

also aren't the seams uncomfortable on the baseballs/softballs.


Softballs are about a circumference of 12 inches and the seams don't seem to be a problem if lubed enough. The only problem I had was the type of lube I tried which was porn hub silicone based. It is pungent and tingly, almost acidic and tastes almost like massage gel lube. It makes you need to go and it is just unpleasant in general.

I did manage to get the softball stuck after finishing, but a long tug on the cord followed by nearly passing out and it came loose. Also managed to get it to stay at the halfway point and keep me open for awhile. I can now take a chance large and XL head (unflared) without lube as well as my apple sized plug.

My ass is sore, tingly and I feel slightly ill so a break for a few days will do me well.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby KnotyDes » Sat Jun 16, 2018 6:35 pm

FinalVerse wrote:I did manage to get the softball stuck after finishing, but a long tug on the cord followed by nearly passing out and it came loose. Also managed to get it to stay at the halfway point and keep me open for awhile. I can now take a chance large and XL head (unflared) without lube as well as my apple sized plug.

The emu egg does the same thing. Flexing to get that thing to move around feel great. I think the egg is a bit easier to extract since its oblong, but sometime your body just doesn't want to let go. :smile:


I've gotten to the point where I can use just spit for a lot of things, but its not really comfortable. I preffer for thing to go smoothly.

Rest up for more adventures. :smile:
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Mon Jun 18, 2018 11:25 pm

Funny story regarding the softball. I was unwell today due to a virus and I decided to "play" softball again... I thought I messed up by doing so, but strangely enough, I feel much better. It also helped to remove the crappy Porn Hub lube which smelled like chemicals and was likely causing me the nausea as well.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby Rapidash » Mon Jul 16, 2018 8:36 pm

I'm still somewhat new and my only concern is causing damage and I'm terrified of getting sepsis. My first toy was medium chance unflared. The head hurt somewhat on entry but after that it was easy to hilt and kind of... Underwhelming. So I'm going to try large chance but I'm worried about going too deep and causing injury. How do you know you've gone too deep? From what I understand, lower GI doesn't have much pain perception. Also, if I warm up with medium should that be safe to transition to large? If I still feel meh when it's in, then maybe anal play isnt for me, but you only live once so mighty as well experiment (safely).

Thanks for this thread.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby KnotyDes » Mon Jul 16, 2018 10:12 pm

Rapidash wrote:I'm still somewhat new and my only concern is causing damage and I'm terrified of getting sepsis. My first toy was medium chance unflared. The head hurt somewhat on entry but after that it was easy to hilt and kind of... Underwhelming. So I'm going to try large chance but I'm worried about going too deep and causing injury. How do you know you've gone too deep? From what I understand, lower GI doesn't have much pain perception. Also, if I warm up with medium should that be safe to transition to large? If I still feel meh when it's in, then maybe anal play isnt for me, but you only live once so mighty as well experiment (safely).

Thanks for this thread.

medium to Large chance is quite the jump. i hope you have at least have some experience with toys that are at least 2" thick. As well as being comfortable with what you can get past your "bend"/into the sigmoid colon.

as for your worries about going too deep. the entrance to your sigmoid colon does have some receptors, you feel when you hit that. if you push past that with something it isnt comfortable with, it will hurt. not to mention you would probably have to be using a good amount of force to push into your sigmoid if your not ready.

an important thing i have learned about anal is that it really help find your sweet spots. i have a medium Chance and even though it is one of my "smallest" toys i can still get it to hit all the right spots. maybe before "upgrading" try experimenting a bit more. first I recommend warming the toy up, easiest way is to soaking it in hot water. I soaked my toys in a sink full of the hottest water i could get. try different angles and positions.

Something that gets me going with my chance is to lay back and slowly insert chance while slowly and gently masturbating. I clench and relax when i have penile stimulation while being penetrated, this lets my body take the toy at its own pace and if the toy is hot the feeling is really intense. then depending on how i'm feeling ill tease myself a bit more with slow play or get right to thrusting.

maybe you do need something bigger to begging to really feel how good anal can be. just be aware that Large Chance is a pretty big toy if you do end up getting one take it slow. if you cant make it work you might need to get a trainer. 2.37" is pretty thick for the inexperienced. hurting yourself would really turn you off to anal.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby Grimly Fiendish » Tue Jul 17, 2018 1:20 am

Rapidash wrote:I'm still somewhat new and my only concern is causing damage and I'm terrified of getting sepsis. My first toy was medium chance unflared. The head hurt somewhat on entry but after that it was easy to hilt and kind of... Underwhelming. So I'm going to try large chance but I'm worried about going too deep and causing injury. How do you know you've gone too deep? From what I understand, lower GI doesn't have much pain perception. Also, if I warm up with medium should that be safe to transition to large? If I still feel meh when it's in, then maybe anal play isnt for me, but you only live once so mighty as well experiment (safely).

Thanks for this thread.


Consider a toy with a slim tapered tip (like the Slink from Square Peg). The head on Chance is blunt in comparison, even the unflared version. A tapered tip should help give you experience getting past the sigmoid bend.

It seems like there are two different 'limits' to push -- depth and girth. And in order to push limits in both categories at the same time requires an elite level of experience. So maybe don't try to test your limits in both categories at the same time, until you've built up enough experience in each separate category?

I decided to leave depth play alone for now and concentrate on girth and texture. The prep required for depth is more time consuming, and it seems that most of my enjoyment doesn't require deep play.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby KnotyDes » Tue Jul 17, 2018 2:27 pm

Grimly Fiendish wrote:Consider a toy with a slim tapered tip (like the Slink from Square Peg). The head on Chance is blunt in comparison, even the unflared version. A tapered tip should help give you experience getting past the sigmoid bend.

It seems like there are two different 'limits' to push -- depth and girth. And in order to push limits in both categories at the same time requires an elite level of experience. So maybe don't try to test your limits in both categories at the same time, until you've built up enough experience in each separate category?

I decided to leave depth play alone for now and concentrate on girth and texture. The prep required for depth is more time consuming, and it seems that most of my enjoyment doesn't require deep play.


Agreed. Girth is much easier to train for. Depth play is a bit more difficult, but I am starting to feel that depth play is way more rewarding.

Depth does take a lot of prep saddly. Eventually you find what works for you and you can stream line clean outs, but sometimes your body can be stubborn. I does feel refreshing to be completely empty and "clean" every once and a while.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Thu Jul 19, 2018 10:41 pm

KnotyDes wrote:Agreed. Girth is much easier to train for. Depth play is a bit more difficult, but I am starting to feel that depth play is way more rewarding.



I agree. With my large slink all the way in, I cum like I've been holding it for a week. You just completely empty yourself. But sadly, with the amount of prep, it is difficult.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby Dee » Fri Jul 27, 2018 2:19 pm

Rapidash wrote:I'm still somewhat new and my only concern is causing damage and I'm terrified of getting sepsis. My first toy was medium chance unflared. The head hurt somewhat on entry but after that it was easy to hilt and kind of... Underwhelming. So I'm going to try large chance but I'm worried about going too deep and causing injury. How do you know you've gone too deep? From what I understand, lower GI doesn't have much pain perception. Also, if I warm up with medium should that be safe to transition to large? If I still feel meh when it's in, then maybe anal play isnt for me, but you only live once so mighty as well experiment (safely).

Thanks for this thread.

Don't worry too much about doing damage without knowing. You will feel it if you're going to hurt yourself. And sometimes you'll feel like you're going to hurt yourself even if you're not. As you're more experienced you'll get to know what that inner ring feels like as you pass it.

The only exceptions to this I've noticed are squirting inside with water that would otherwise be too hot and over inflating an inflatable. Both could go horribly wrong. Easy enough to stop both though. Don't tie yourself to a hot faucet (Just use a bottle and gravity after testing the water with your hand.) And inflate the inflatable, outside of you and count the pumps until it's a size you know you can handle.

Use a good lube. Just plain water based i found is bad lube. Better to get a flavoured one even if you're not going to be tasting it because the flavour adds some stickiness which keeps the whole surface slippery rather than it just running off. Try a lube on a toy and press hard but move your finger/thumb slowly. Cheap plain lubes tend to judder as they don't coat the surface very well making something like stretching more uncomfortable than it needs to be. Oil or silicon based reduce the problem significantly but are annoying to clean and will damage some toys. So far the best water based I've used really is cum lube. Durex massage lube coming in second along with ID Silk; then most flavoured/tingle/heat lubes in third.

P.S. if you'll be doing any cleaning out, which is pretty much required if you're going deep, do it the right way. Clean water is a must. You're going the wrong way so all the anti - infection properties of the digestive system are being bypassed. Whatever you use must be clean. Almost any bottled drink will be sterile and is fine. Mineral or spring water is NOT SAFE. Because it's from a spring it doesn't have strict regulations regarding contaminants as its being taken from the ground not being produced in a factory where water is almost always distilled.

If you're feeling adventurous you can use alcohol but keep the % abv low (More than 7% abv is uncomfortable and high % will keep your butt glued to a toilet for DAYS). Oil in high quantities will have the same effect.

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Pulling out is just as important as pushing in. I've had toys that have bulbous heads and after fully inserting the inner ring has closed around the head. So don't be too quick pulling out once you're in!
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby KnotyDes » Sun Jul 29, 2018 12:59 pm

Dee wrote:PPS
Pulling out is just as important as pushing in. I've had toys that have bulbous heads and after fully inserting the inner ring has closed around the head. So don't be too quick pulling out once you're in!

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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Mon Sep 10, 2018 11:17 pm

I desperately want to be able to take the Red Boy Challenge Plug which is 5 inches. I have seen people do it before, but each time I try I get to the base and it feels like it will never go any further as it's too wide and being squashed wider by my weight when I press down. :crying:
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby KnotyDes » Tue Sep 11, 2018 8:43 pm

FinalVerse wrote:I desperately want to be able to take the Red Boy Challenge Plug which is 5 inches. I have seen people do it before, but each time I try I get to the base and it feels like it will never go any further as it's too wide and being squashed wider by my weight when I press down. :crying:

i had/still have somewhere the "small" version of that one. It was the first 3.8" thick toy i could take.

I am currently trying to break into the 5" thick club as well. my current tool's are Mr hankey toys XXL Prince Charming and Solatok. I cant quite pop Solatoks knot in but i can almost reach the base of Prince Charming. I am very close, if only i didnt get side tracked with depth play so often :laugh:
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Tue Sep 11, 2018 11:18 pm

It honestly feels like it's impossible, like my pelvis is too small or something. Any ideas? Lube dry's up pretty quick, I have seen people do it with creamier lubes, and the lube doesn't dry as much. I am using clear silicone based lubes from the grocery store.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Wed Sep 12, 2018 12:00 am

I am also worried that if I take too much of a break to recover, that I will lose progress and no longer be as stretched.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby SpinHedge511 » Thu Sep 13, 2018 12:42 pm

FinalVerse wrote:I am using clear silicone based lubes from the grocery store.


You really shouldn't be using silicone-based lube with your Bad Dragon or any other silicone toys. The lube can break down and damage your toys.
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Re: Stretching for Larger Toys

Postby FinalVerse » Thu Sep 13, 2018 10:41 pm

SpinHedge511 wrote:
FinalVerse wrote:I am using clear silicone based lubes from the grocery store.


You really shouldn't be using silicone-based lube with your Bad Dragon or any other silicone toys. The lube can break down and damage your toys.


It was actually a PVC toy, so it's fine. But in any case, turns out it was in fact too big. I dislocated my tailbone, so RIP me.

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