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Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Feliciaty » Sun Aug 28, 2016 6:28 pm

:unamused: I've been wanting to try anal for the longest time but there's always this one thing stopping me from doing it.

Feces

I'm horrified at the thought of finding any on my toys. I know with a good clean out you can practically be free of it but there's always a chance of it with longer toys. So I dunno... I'm really a hygienic freak when it comes to waste bodily fluids. Even after cleaning cat boxes and handling them in labs I still can't get over feces. Mostly just human feces though.

Does anyone have any advice on how I can get past the feces part of it and enjoy the anal itself?
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Rainbow Dasher » Sun Aug 28, 2016 6:47 pm

There is always the risk of running into it even if you've cleaned out well. If you toy anally, you have to be prepared to, even in the rare cases, see/smell the stuff. Even after a movement, and then a thorough clean out, we've still found "stuff" on toys before. It doesn't happen every time, no, but there are times it does. Shit, as they say, will happen. The only way you can, maybe "get over it" is to realize and understand that if you play back there, inevitably you will, at some point see things that are "yuck." Try not to focus on the fact that there could be fecal matter; try to focus on the sensations and how a toy makes you feel.

Eating a clean diet and cleaning out well are things most anal toy-ers are going to say, some will even go so far as to abstain from solids, a day or two before playing, to minimize cleanout time and a potential mess.
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Feliciaty » Sun Aug 28, 2016 7:01 pm

Huh well perhaps I could use a condom to make sure none of it gets on the toy at least? Would that be a good idea?

Ah but yeah, I've heard advice like that before. But another thing that I've heard was cleaning yourself out at least twice a week even if your not toying? Does that have any kind of factual standing or is that just being paranoid.

Hey thanks to you two by the way :widesmile: Yeah I'm probably going to have to start by just using my fingers with a glove or something before I decide to stick any of my toys up there. That might be a good start I guess?
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Lipton » Sun Aug 28, 2016 8:28 pm

Feliciaty wrote:Huh well perhaps I could use a condom to make sure none of it gets on the toy at least? Would that be a good idea?


You have to be careful with that though, the standard condoms are lubricated and mostly contain silicone based lubricant. So try to get unlubricated ones and lube them up yourself with waterbased lube =)
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby mynickname » Sun Aug 28, 2016 9:54 pm

Feliciaty wrote:another thing that I've heard was cleaning yourself out at least twice a week even if your not toying?
Do not do that. You'll mess yourself up by starting to rely on enemas to poo. If you're going to clean yourself over twice a week to toy then so be it, but don't manually take over working bodily functions.

First and foremost you should get over your fear of shit. You can simply decide not to let it bother you or you can slowly grow accustom to it. After you poop, turn around and look at it. You can learn a lot about your health.

Since you're starting out you'd be using smaller toys so unlubricated condoms would work fine. You can wear medical gloves too, they're cheap. Put a towel down that you can easily throw into the wash. A dirty silicone toy is easy to clean, just wash normally with soap.

Give yourself small warm water-only enemas before toying or eat lots of fiber and toy after a bowel movement.

Do you ever plan on having kids? Parents deal with poop everyday. It doesn't hurt them.
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Feliciaty » Sun Aug 28, 2016 10:07 pm

mynickname wrote:
Feliciaty wrote:another thing that I've heard was cleaning yourself out at least twice a week even if your not toying?
Do not do that. You'll mess yourself up by starting to rely on enemas to poo. If you're going to clean yourself over twice a week to toy then so be it, but don't manually take over working bodily functions.

First and foremost you should get over your fear of shit. You can simply decide not to let it bother you or you can slowly grow accustom to it. After you poop, turn around and look at it. You can learn a lot about your health.

Since you're starting out you'd be using smaller toys so unlubricated condoms would work fine. You can wear medical gloves too, they're cheap. Put a towel down that you can easily throw into the wash. A dirty silicone toy is easy to clean, just wash normally with soap.

Give yourself small warm water-only enemas before toying or eat lots of fiber and toy after a bowel movement.

Do you ever plan on having kids? Parents deal with poop everyday. It doesn't hurt them.


Naw never having any kids, can't have any anyway.

But yeah I handle animal feces on a daily bases thanks to the line of work I'm in. So I'm no stranger to it but it's mostly human feces that gross me out. It'll probably take me a bit to get used to just like with animals.

But yeah if it's a bad idea to do that, then I definitely won't do it.


But yeah, I'll finally be putting some of those med gloves I have up in my bathroom cabinet to good use finally. Thanks!
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Grimly Fiendish » Mon Aug 29, 2016 11:14 pm

In addition, you could do some try doing some exploratory toying in the shower (if you have one) where soap and hot running water are already on hand.

I clean up my toys there anyway, so I often wind down a session there, and I'll sometimes begin there as well...
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Dorito » Wed Aug 31, 2016 5:52 am

Hmm. Do you want to use something long specifically or would shorter work? So far I've only used plugs and a small glass dildo for anal that was maybe six inches, and I've never had so much as a speck.

I'm similarly squicked by feces and so far have only gotten up the nerve to use glass or stainless steel anally because no odor or anything would theoretically 'stick' to those materials and, should the worst ever happenen, it would be a breeze to clean. Silicone IS also perfectly safe, but apparently can still hold odors, so I've avoided it for that so far.

I would say the biggest things are be cautious of depth, at least at first, and try to be aware of your body: don't toy if you feel you may need to go any time soon or right after a movement. I've heard fiber also helps in keeping things less messy.
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Sandpaper » Wed Aug 31, 2016 6:09 am

Grimly Fiendish wrote:toying in the shower

I used to only toy in the shower, just cause cleanup is so much easier when the inevatable happens. Just hose it down, add a little soap, and if you're still in the mood, go clean yourself out again and continue.
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Feliciaty » Wed Aug 31, 2016 10:29 pm

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Thanks a lot for the help :stick:

The condoms really did alleviate the grossness that and medical gloves will be a thing until I'm used to it.
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Faffy the FauxFox » Thu Sep 01, 2016 3:27 am

Feliciaty wrote:
mynickname wrote:
Feliciaty wrote:another thing that I've heard was cleaning yourself out at least twice a week even if your not toying?
Do not do that. You'll mess yourself up by starting to rely on enemas to poo. If you're going to clean yourself over twice a week to toy then so be it, but don't manually take over working bodily functions.

First and foremost you should get over your fear of shit. You can simply decide not to let it bother you or you can slowly grow accustom to it. After you poop, turn around and look at it. You can learn a lot about your health.

Since you're starting out you'd be using smaller toys so unlubricated condoms would work fine. You can wear medical gloves too, they're cheap. Put a towel down that you can easily throw into the wash. A dirty silicone toy is easy to clean, just wash normally with soap.

Give yourself small warm water-only enemas before toying or eat lots of fiber and toy after a bowel movement.

Do you ever plan on having kids? Parents deal with poop everyday. It doesn't hurt them.


Naw never having any kids, can't have any anyway.

But yeah I handle animal feces on a daily bases thanks to the line of work I'm in. So I'm no stranger to it but it's mostly human feces that gross me out. It'll probably take me a bit to get used to just like with animals.

But yeah if it's a bad idea to do that, then I definitely won't do it.


But yeah, I'll finally be putting some of those med gloves I have up in my bathroom cabinet to good use finally. Thanks!



how many species? for smells carnivorian animals have bad smelling feces. and I assume with a good diet a human won't have dog or cat smells in theirs. I think. then again I read it's sulfuric foods that will do it.
but as far as smells, i assume if you work cleaning up dog and cat cages, or massive amounts of various dung. some of those will smell different than your own? unless it is the intimacy. or the smell of a lover, and sometimes we want to think of everyone as higher than having smells or body functions.
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Feliciaty » Thu Sep 01, 2016 3:06 pm

Faffy the FauxFox wrote:
Feliciaty wrote:
mynickname wrote:Do not do that. You'll mess yourself up by starting to rely on enemas to poo. If you're going to clean yourself over twice a week to toy then so be it, but don't manually take over working bodily functions.

First and foremost you should get over your fear of shit. You can simply decide not to let it bother you or you can slowly grow accustom to it. After you poop, turn around and look at it. You can learn a lot about your health.

Since you're starting out you'd be using smaller toys so unlubricated condoms would work fine. You can wear medical gloves too, they're cheap. Put a towel down that you can easily throw into the wash. A dirty silicone toy is easy to clean, just wash normally with soap.

Give yourself small warm water-only enemas before toying or eat lots of fiber and toy after a bowel movement.

Do you ever plan on having kids? Parents deal with poop everyday. It doesn't hurt them.


Naw never having any kids, can't have any anyway.

But yeah I handle animal feces on a daily bases thanks to the line of work I'm in. So I'm no stranger to it but it's mostly human feces that gross me out. It'll probably take me a bit to get used to just like with animals.

But yeah if it's a bad idea to do that, then I definitely won't do it.


But yeah, I'll finally be putting some of those med gloves I have up in my bathroom cabinet to good use finally. Thanks!



how many species? for smells carnivorian animals have bad smelling feces. and I assume with a good diet a human won't have dog or cat smells in theirs. I think. then again I read it's sulfuric foods that will do it.
but as far as smells, i assume if you work cleaning up dog and cat cages, or massive amounts of various dung. some of those will smell different than your own? unless it is the intimacy. or the smell of a lover, and sometimes we want to think of everyone as higher than having smells or body functions.


I work with mostly herbivorous animals like deer or elk. Occasionally I will work with carnivores, wolves mostly. But I'm mostly used to the smell of herbivore dung than omnivore dung or carnivore dung. But I do clean out cat boxes but that doesn't bother me since the smell is mostly masked by the litter anyway.

:psyduck:

But like I said, it'll probably take me a bit to get used to it.
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Re: Anal: How do you make it seem not gross?

Postby Zoth » Wed Sep 14, 2016 8:11 am

Most people that does not do anal sex expect that someone ass is always full of s... That's totaly wrong, in fact most of the time, the rectum is clean, unless you have to go shortly.

Many people do anal sex without enema or something because they know that. Just have a look at HotkinkyJo (a porn actress). She can take an entire arm in her ass without any problem (that's still amaze me...).

My advice would be: If you start feeling unconfortable while playing, have some strange bowel movement, stop toying and wait. It means that something is coming. By the way, playing with the need to p.. is very unpleasant. And of course, it can get dirty. :D
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