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Recommanded firmness for tight rear?

Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2018 3:18 pm
by Scorpio
So, been a bit careful with anal play since I had a bit of an insident a while back (apparently put my spincter in spasm. Still there, but not in the same way as before and last few times I've tried anal play, I've seemed to have recovered well enough.) I'm still curious and have had some fun the times I've tried it. So I'm considering buying a dildo. It will probably be a mini and nothing too textured along the shaft.
I'm all up for suggestions of which toys might suit me, but most of all, I wonder if anybody would have a suggestion on firmness, since I'm rather tight because of my earlier condition. Happy for any suggestions people might have for me.

Re: Recommanded firmness for tight rear?

Posted: Thu Nov 22, 2018 7:42 pm
by ohw
Have you used butt plugs yet? I recommend the nJoy line. They come in various sizes. After going larger, try some prostate massagers. Then graduate to dildos. At least that's the path I took.

Re: Recommanded firmness for tight rear?

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 1:54 am
by Scorpio
ohw wrote:Have you used butt plugs yet? I recommend the nJoy line. They come in various sizes. After going larger, try some prostate massagers. Then graduate to dildos. At least that's the path I took.

I have a prostate massager at the moment, so I think a step to a mini toy might be a good next stage. My experience with firmness is very limited though since I've only bought masturbators before ^.^;

Re: Recommanded firmness for tight rear?

Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2018 4:37 am
by Padre
I'd recommend medium firmness --- Firm is probably too intense for you, too little give, but soft tends to be difficult to insert if you're already struggling anyway. Medium is usually a safe bet :stick: