Cynic Dickic wrote: Alrighty, I've been on the forums for a while, but this is being written after my very first session with a Bad Dragon dildo, and it was actually my first time with any sex toy period.
So here's the skinny: My very first dildo is a Medium/Medium Elliot that I ordered on Black Friday to take advantage of the sale. While I was expecting it to be pretty large I figured I could take it as I have used cucumbers that were about or slightly less than 2 inches thick in the past, and I wouldn't consider myself an anal newbie. A .1 or .2 inch increase didn't seem like a problem, however it seems like the website isn't completely accurate as when I took out a ruler it seems a bit bigger at 7.5 inches long and thicker than advertised, though that's harder to measure and I couldn't get an exact measurement I'm sure it was more than 2.1 inches thick.
I wasn't quite prepared for something this size, and despite being squishy and bendy as a dildo is, it presented some problems. The main issue I have is that whenever I insert or remove the head, the foreskin adds just enough girth that it becomes painful. Nothing serious, but it's a sting that makes using Elliot tough to enjoy. Even after adding plenty of cum lube that forms a thick film over it and gently pressing down on it with 'just the tip' inside repeatedly for several minutes it still gives me problems, not to mention I had a butt plug in earlier (though a rather small one, only a bit more than half the thickness of Elliot's shaft at its thickest point). Once I get it in I'm fine and it's quite enjoyable, but in order to get full use out of Elliot I need to find a way to stop that pain when the foreskin is passing through my sphincter. Do I need to relax more? Do I need more lube? Do I need to warm up with something else first? I need answers!
Secondly, and not as much of a problem, I'd like some advice on taking the whole thing. I was able to take it farily deep, almost reaching the balls (probably around 1 or 1.5 inches away from hilting it), but trying to go deeper resulted in pressure which I imagine is me pressing against the end of my colon. I tried various angles, going down very slowly, and turning myself around so the balls were facing away from me, but trying to get any deeper results in discomfort no matter what. (especially when I turned around, I was unable to get deeper in that position further up the toy than before) What can I do to get the rest of it in? Of course I should focus on making the foreskin comfortable to insert first, but this is something else I'd like to know about.
One last thing though technically not a request for advice, the first time I inserted the head and then most of the shaft, I was turned around to the balls were behind me below my tail bone, and I started feeling like my body was forcing the toy out, it was freaky to be honest. My lower body seemed to be convulsing, my abdomen was contracting and expanding uncontrollably and as I said it felt like the toy was being pushed out. I swear I felt like a woman who was in the middle of child birth. There was no blood or pain, but it was very uncomfortable and stressful. What the heck was that, and is it something to worry about?
If this is your first time with the toy I say keep playing, each model have it's own learning curve and in my experience most of my first times with a toy wasn't quite enjoyable, even with my favourites. It seems that you have to get a bit stretched to have no disconform, also can be mixed with that day was not your day and was more sensitive, can happend. Yes, warm up with something else first. The inaccurate sizing is a problem, we have a thread with users correct measurements, if your model isn't there you can help. If you run out of length in your rectum you have to learn to pass the bend to the sigmoid, for most people is not easy, and with the thick head of Elliot I doubt you can, is better with a thin tapered toy. For the disconform at the entrance and for the bend you have to being relaxed and keep pushing you sphincter like if you were going to fart to open them, some people think they are pushing when actualy they are gripping. And that moment maybe is becouse you body wasn't ready for that, you introduce a big strange shape where "it shouldn't" and your body is like WTF?! and do what your body is designed to do down there, pushing out. I'd say at first is normal but you have to try it don't happend, go slowly and push out by yourself.