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I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Fableheart » Sun Feb 25, 2018 11:56 pm

Hey there. I hope this is the right place to post this; I wasn’t sure between this and adult. It is about toying.

Over the years, I’ve tried many different types of toy, and I do enjoy collecting. My vagina doesn’t, though. Be it sex or toying, I can’t feel anything. Like at all. At most, I feel stretched and basic sliding, but hardly any pleasure.

Be it smooth and shapely like Nox and David, to the more dramatic shapes like the Reptillian or Cyborg, I have had little to no success with vaginal pleasure. I can’t even feel IRL human dicks, so sex sucks. The best I have is my Crackers and Tantus Vamp. But still, it’s really hit and miss and mostly feels bruising than feels good. It is incredibly frustrating and I almost want to cry.

My question is, is there anyone out there like this, and if so, what do you use or do to subvert this and actually have rocking vaginal?
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Tallon » Mon Feb 26, 2018 12:28 am

You're not alone here. I toy with my fantasy stuff because the real thing does nothing for me at all, and toying vaginally alone won't give me any results. *If* I couple it with clitoral stim from a vibrating bullet, things can happen. The toying adds a little pressure. But no, I've never had the so-called g-spot going for me or a vaginal orgasm. I collect the toys because I actually enjoy collecting them and admire their shapes. Believe it or not, sometimes I get more pleasure orally fondling these fake dicks than I do using them vaginally.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Fruityrumpusasshole » Mon Feb 26, 2018 12:52 am

Yup. Here too.
In fact, I can hardly even get horny anymore.
like that nice, hot, throbbing horny feeling.
*sigh*
You've basically described it for me too.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby chickadee » Mon Feb 26, 2018 7:17 pm

I know someone who might be able to help you. She is a shaman and she lives in Arizona I think. Message me if you want more details.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby reine » Tue Feb 27, 2018 1:55 pm

Are you on any medications? I know antidepressants can really mess with sex/pleasure-related stuff, and I've heard that hormonal birth control can also negatively impact that. Dunno about other meds, but I'd assume other things could have an effect, too.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Jasmine » Fri Mar 02, 2018 1:53 pm

My vagina is very sensitive to chaffing, but otherwise I can't feel much either. Toys (and sex) will rub me raw far faster than I'd like, even with copious lube use. Sex isn't pleasurable. Toying isn't much better, but I can generally get some sort of nice feeling from having a toy to clench on while I use a vibrator, but that's the main sensation I can feel- a feeling of having pressure or fullness. No birth control for the past year, no meds, just also feeling kinda broken.

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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby thesharkwhisperer » Fri Mar 02, 2018 3:06 pm

Same here. I barely toy internally anymore, I just do clit stim because that works. I envy people who say they are sensitive to texture and how they can feel a toy all the way in. Even with the firmest most textured toys I just vaguely feel like something is inside but nothing more.
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Postby Must <3 monsters 97 » Mon Mar 05, 2018 4:01 pm

I had a toy with veins all over it and sometimes I felt it a lot. During a different session it just irritated me but I didn't feel like I was really feeling it. Sexy holes are so finicky and unpredictable.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Fruityrumpusasshole » Sat Mar 10, 2018 2:58 pm

Jasmine wrote:My vagina is very sensitive to chaffing, but otherwise I can't feel much either. Toys (and sex) will rub me raw far faster than I'd like, even with copious lube use. Sex isn't pleasurable. Toying isn't much better, but I can generally get some sort of nice feeling from having a toy to clench on while I use a vibrator, but that's the main sensation I can feel- a feeling of having pressure or fullness. No birth control for the past year, no meds, just also feeling kinda broken.

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I am on meds though. And switching meds did help a little, but it's still not 100% for me.
I can't wear tight pants and have to shave/trim a lot to keep that kind if irritation down, but everything else is...meh.

I don't really feel much internally unless I'm hitting/Pressing against my cervix and maybe one spot about midway in. *sigh*
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Faffy the FauxFox » Sat Mar 31, 2018 11:11 am

how much is someone supposed to feel with their vagina, I'm over thinking like 'vaginal braille"

I don't know if its my mind and mood and medications but I'm not all there. maybe it's the "female" death grip

but i think i get sleep orgasms, but i thought i read for some of the sexes/genders getting off is more mental and emotional and needs different touch. so un controlled dreams with invisible boyfriends make no sense (I think)
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Bea » Sat Mar 31, 2018 12:52 pm

Honestly the only reason I have toys is the thought of a monster/whatever screwing me is awesome. Its all in my head. Human dicks make me sick and I get no pleasure. Still, even with a fantasy dildo I need clit stim and usually porn.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Featherystorm » Wed Apr 04, 2018 10:24 pm

So I'm about to lay down some biological facts (This might be things you already know):

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What I'm saying is, you're not broken at all. It's just that your vagina probably doesn't have a lot of nerve endings. I myself can't get off unless my clitoris is being stimulated or I'm roughly thrusting a toy in and out until the point of over stimulation. Gentle toying just doesn't do anything for me. I'm texture insensitive as well so the deeper I toy, the less I feel. So yeah, this sounds like a pretty normal problem for people.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby semprerotic » Fri Apr 06, 2018 10:39 am

Fableheart wrote:Hey there. I hope this is the right place to post this; I wasn’t sure between this and adult. It is about toying.

Over the years, I’ve tried many different types of toy, and I do enjoy collecting. My vagina doesn’t, though. Be it sex or toying, I can’t feel anything. Like at all. At most, I feel stretched and basic sliding, but hardly any pleasure.

Be it smooth and shapely like Nox and David, to the more dramatic shapes like the Reptillian or Cyborg, I have had little to no success with vaginal pleasure. I can’t even feel IRL human dicks, so sex sucks. The best I have is my Crackers and Tantus Vamp. But still, it’s really hit and miss and mostly feels bruising than feels good. It is incredibly frustrating and I almost want to cry.

My question is, is there anyone out there like this, and if so, what do you use or do to subvert this and actually have rocking vaginal?


This may sound counter-intuitive, but Sex is first and foremost a mental experience. The chemicals of your brain change as you become aroused. The pleasure we seek does not necessary must come from our genitalia. We project into our bodies and minds situations and stimulus we wish to have with someone else or just ourselves, and the more intense those stimuli become, the more pleasure we feel. If you feel in any way unconfortable with your own body, the situation or you are not very aroused, you won't feel any pleasure from your vagina or anywhere else.

After I orgasm masturbating myself and lose my arousal, if I try to continue the movements, the exact same stimuli that was once pleasurable becomes uncomfortable or even painful.

If you cannot feel pleasure from touching yourself, this can be because you simply can't become aroused enough, be it for psychological or chemical reasons. Not exploring and feeling confortable enough with your body may also contribute negative to the whole experience.

AFAIK many women don't get orgasm for pure vaginal penetration, but many others do. So It varies from person to person due to all the facts I mentioned.

Some men (and women) can have orgasm from anal penetration but it is even less common, nevertheless we like to toy annally for a different intense stimulation that helps increasing the overall experience, but I finish off with regular masturbation just like many women do with clit during sex. Many men orgasm from oral stimulation, I don't find it much pleasurable.

A consultation with a psychologist or even a psychiatrist that has experience with sexuality can definitely help.

I know I'm a male but these are just my two cents.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Faffy the FauxFox » Fri May 04, 2018 4:11 pm

semprerotic wrote:
Fableheart wrote:Hey there. I hope this is the right place to post this; I wasn’t sure between this and adult. It is about toying.

Over the years, I’ve tried many different types of toy, and I do enjoy collecting. My vagina doesn’t, though. Be it sex or toying, I can’t feel anything. Like at all. At most, I feel stretched and basic sliding, but hardly any pleasure.

Be it smooth and shapely like Nox and David, to the more dramatic shapes like the Reptillian or Cyborg, I have had little to no success with vaginal pleasure. I can’t even feel IRL human dicks, so sex sucks. The best I have is my Crackers and Tantus Vamp. But still, it’s really hit and miss and mostly feels bruising than feels good. It is incredibly frustrating and I almost want to cry.

My question is, is there anyone out there like this, and if so, what do you use or do to subvert this and actually have rocking vaginal?


This may sound counter-intuitive, but Sex is first and foremost a mental experience. The chemicals of your brain change as you become aroused. The pleasure we seek does not necessary must come from our genitalia. We project into our bodies and minds situations and stimulus we wish to have with someone else or just ourselves, and the more intense those stimuli become, the more pleasure we feel. If you feel in any way unconfortable with your own body, the situation or you are not very aroused, you won't feel any pleasure from your vagina or anywhere else.

After I orgasm masturbating myself and lose my arousal, if I try to continue the movements, the exact same stimuli that was once pleasurable becomes uncomfortable or even painful.

If you cannot feel pleasure from touching yourself, this can be because you simply can't become aroused enough, be it for psychological or chemical reasons. Not exploring and feeling confortable enough with your body may also contribute negative to the whole experience.

AFAIK many women don't get orgasm for pure vaginal penetration, but many others do. So It varies from person to person due to all the facts I mentioned.

Some men (and women) can have orgasm from anal penetration but it is even less common, nevertheless we like to toy annally for a different intense stimulation that helps increasing the overall experience, but I finish off with regular masturbation just like many women do with clit during sex. Many men orgasm from oral stimulation, I don't find it much pleasurable.

A consultation with a psychologist or even a psychiatrist that has experience with sexuality can definitely help.

I know I'm a male but these are just my two cents.



but is mental masturbation a thing? to imagine tactile hallucinations?
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby CakeLurker » Fri May 04, 2018 4:58 pm

Faffy the FauxFox wrote:but is mental masturbation a thing? to imagine tactile hallucinations?

People can daydream the craziest of things while at work, at lunch, in bed, etc. So... yeah?
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Postby Tempest » Wed May 09, 2018 6:17 pm

CakeLurker wrote:
Faffy the FauxFox wrote:but is mental masturbation a thing? to imagine tactile hallucinations?

People can daydream the craziest of things while at work, at lunch, in bed, etc. So... yeah?

It's like a wet dream, but when you're awake.

I've done it exactly once. It was weird, but cool. It happened shortly after I woke up, while I was still lying in bed. I'd gotten fucked the night before but hadn't cum, so I was pretty pent up. I just fantasized about it, wasn't trying to accomplish anything, but I came just from that.

Haven't been able to do it again, though I have tried. Ah, well. :stick:
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby LittleZeroThatCould » Mon May 14, 2018 3:32 pm

For me, it's definitely been like 75% mental, 25% physical. Like, yeah, these things are cool, and I especially love the tubes adding to a 'finale' moment at the end, but more importantly, when I finish warming the toy, and I'm holding it in my hands, feeling the swells and textures beneath my fingers, my mind begins to wander.

What is this bad boy attached to?

Why is it so thick when I touch it?

How long has this beast been without release?

Is this going to effect how rough or gentle the experience will be?

But most importantly, what's going to happen after it's done with me?

Obviously, we can say that the answers are all very simple; it's an inanimate object, subject to my will and how I want to use it. But that's not the point I'm getting at. The point is that while I'm there, my imagination is filling in all the blanks. I'm no longer mentally in my bedroom. I'm a Level 7 Rogue who failed that attempt at spotting a trap in the dungeon, and now here comes the mid-boss. I'm the spy in the night who got caught in the wrong fortress. I'm the servant who got too carried away when tending the stables, and bit off more than she could chew.

It doesn't matter. For those two hours, reality takes a back seat to degenerate smut, and THAT is what gets me to the finish line, not the actual physical act itself.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby semprerotic » Mon May 28, 2018 1:10 pm

Faffy the FauxFox wrote:
but is mental masturbation a thing? to imagine tactile hallucinations?


Yes. I've actually orgasmed and ejaculated once in my life without even touching myself. Just by thinking in erotic situations. I was quite young (15yo) and my hormones and excitation levels were considerably higher than they are now. But it is possible.
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Re: I think I’m broken tbh.

Postby Moldtomato » Fri Jun 22, 2018 8:12 pm

Having the same issue. Most of my pleasure comes from fantasizing and outside stimulation. For a long time I though I ran out off energy(was before I found out I'm ace) and then I thought it has something to with my asexuality. Checked for informations about the famous "G-spot" (because I wanted to get the most out off my few nightly enjoyments) and came across articles like that: https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/entry/g-s ... _n_5947930

Curious what you think? Especially since the things mentioned make a lot of sense.
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Postby salticue » Sun Jun 24, 2018 12:02 pm

I thought I was the only one experiencing this but its good to know I'm not alone. Vaginal penetration does nothing for me it's the equivalent of someone touching your shoulder, you feel it but it's just there.. you know? You don't really get a sensation from it. Saying this I'd like to add that while I have virtually no good feeling from sex my cervix is pretty sensitive if knocked up against or pressure is applied.

Ways I've learned to get around this issue is foreplay and lots of it. I know that sex is never going to get me off like I'd like it to so I use foreplay to bring me to the brink and it's quite a nice change from rubbing myself raw to feel something. If I do use a toy or a person for penetration I found that grinding feels the best for me. Long thrusts are a big no-no but if you only slide it out by an inch or so it's fine.

Some tips and tricks include inserting a fairly thick toy inside and closing your legs so that you can feel your walls constraining around the toy, use a vibrator on your clit while you sit back and watch your favourite video. If you naturally produce a lot of lubricant you can take your toy out from inside of you and rub it against your clit, the tip of the toy should be warm from the difference in temperature internally. That full feeling I get from the toy combined with clit stimulation is my go to since I can't experience normal sex.

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