kt~ wrote:ColorfulHoovedNights wrote:Now the super personal part
I can have clit based orgasms but I've never had a proper vaginal orgasm. It's just something I've never been able to do. When using BD's toys I always have a vibe on me, I give up with my vaginal play about halfway through and just finish with clit orgasm.
I can feel a major difference when using a toy over a vibe. I know it would feel so different to have a vaginal orgasm, but I keep getting frustrated and give up. Either I get scared or get too tired, or the feeling goes away before I get anywhere. I want to say I'm doing something wrong but if I am I have no idea what it is.
I can tell it's gonna take me a long time to get there. But dammit, BD so help me I will get there. I am gonna make it happen even if it takes me years.
Maybe people in here can help.. I don't know
Hey, it's okay, you're not the only one who's like this. I always have to use a vibe or my fingers on my clit too, some people just have a lot more sensation in their clits than vaginas. I've always been that way, and there's nothing wrong with it.
That's kind of been my mindset for the last little while
I just wish I can have fun the other way too, i mean it still feels nice but never finishing is kind of frustrating after the 40+th time.