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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Niah » Sat Aug 26, 2017 1:38 pm

Willow wrote:
Niah wrote:I guess I can comment on here now...sort of. I had my keys on the kitchen table. I have a Sleipnir and a Pretzal attached to the house key. Pretzal alone would have been fine, but there's no mistaking Sleipnir. My dad saw them and asked what "those nasty keys" were. I replied for him not to ask, snatched up the keys, and hurriedly went to my room. He's dropped the subject and I'm not planning on bringing it up. I'll be keeping my house key well out of sight from now on. It wouldn't have happened had I not been in a hurry and forgot I'd put everything on the kitchen table. Not as bad as a toy, but bad enough. I need a drink.

Yup, I got a Chance (mostly clear but with an orange streak) and a Janine (lime green with golden sparkle) on my keys. I usually try to keep them out of site. As far as I know he hasn't really looked closely at them.
There was a checkout lady that looked at the Janine but commented that she thought it was something else. I have no idea what she thought it was. So either she didn't notice what it was or not well-versed in dragon vag. I kinda know her, she's cool and a lesbian... who knows?


I'm tempted to get a Janine keychain myself. Of the penetrables, she's my favorite to look at it (I don't have the right bits to use her, sadly).
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Willow » Sun Aug 27, 2017 8:37 pm

Niah wrote:I'm tempted to get a Janine keychain myself. Of the penetrables, she's my favorite to look at it (I don't have the right bits to use her, sadly).


Actually I'd like to get other models if they ever decide to make them. Hazel, snowball, JT, Mary and/or Lily. As for insterables, Rex and maybe Razor.

With that many, I wouldn't have enough to things to put them on. I have a completely clear [David's] Muzzle keychain I put on the zipper of my purse. Not that anybody would it connect to my toy kink, but most people don't notice or even see it.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Niah » Mon Aug 28, 2017 7:43 am

Willow wrote:
Niah wrote:I'm tempted to get a Janine keychain myself. Of the penetrables, she's my favorite to look at it (I don't have the right bits to use her, sadly).


Actually I'd like to get other models if they ever decide to make them. Hazel, snowball, JT, Mary and/or Lily. As for insterables, Rex and maybe Razor.

With that many, I wouldn't have enough to things to put them on. I have a completely clear [David's] Muzzle keychain I put on the zipper of my purse. Not that anybody would it connect to my toy kink, but most people don't notice or even see it.


I'm tempted to order another Meng; I got a completely clear one and I might take the risk and try to get one that isn't clear.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby NateTheNoodle » Sun Sep 17, 2017 1:49 pm

I tried my darndest to keep my toys on the low down, but my parents eventually began to figure that I bought some sex toys. It took almost no time for my mom to figure this out, who subtly mentioned it to my father when he was getting a bit anxious as to why I was keeping some mail of mine so secretive.

They're both fine with the fact that I got some toys and my mom in every way supports me. My dad's parents raised him a bit old fashioned so although he's accepting that I got toys, it's obvious that he's a bit prudish about it. However, neither of them (well my mom may have some good ideas, she managed to see I was buying from a store called 'Bad Dragon' at some point) know what I have bought exactly.

In the end, alls well that ends well. They respect my privacy and the exact details of what I own are mostly still under wraps.

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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby pnpet » Wed Sep 20, 2017 1:26 pm

Haha, both my mom and my dad know about the toys I own. Basically some asshat saw a couple images or videos I'd posted online, recognized me, and was like, "Let's contact your parents!"

As far as my roommates, I've actually shown everyone them. I was kind of nervous because there seems to be a joke amongst them all about how awful furries are (? I don't consider myself a furry but do not get this) but one night we were all a little tipsy and I got to talking about my toys. They seemed to be really interested and asked to see them, so why not!

We just passed them around and two of my (female) roommates asked me a lot of questions about, "How that's even possible." :) Especially my Slink, from Squarepegtoys which is 16" long.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby KnotyDes » Sat Sep 23, 2017 10:43 am

Zaphora wrote: :words:

so you know how Facebook will find pictures on your phone and ask if you want to post them. Well i open up Facebook one day and see a bunch of picts of my toys and almost had a heart attack. After a minor breakdown i see that it was just asking if i wanted to post them. crisis adverted, Delete all photos, We're good. Now if someone finds my alt imgur.............
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby KnotyDes » Sat Sep 23, 2017 1:48 pm

Zaphora wrote:
KnotyDes wrote:
Zaphora wrote: :words:

so you know how Facebook will find pictures on your phone and ask if you want to post them. Well i open up Facebook one day and see a bunch of picts of my toys and almost had a heart attack. After a minor breakdown i see that it was just asking if i wanted to post them. crisis adverted, Delete all photos, We're good. Now if someone finds my alt imgur.............


True but this thing....in an iPhone you have a cloud....in the cloud it can save all your photos so in turn when using phone to take a picture it will automatically save it to your cloud....and the cloud content is on EVERY DEVICE that has access to your cloud....

And therefore I was beyond embarrassed

i understand your suffering. stupid technology. also Apple HSSSSSSSSS
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby iwikiwi » Sat Sep 23, 2017 2:30 pm

KnotyDes wrote:
Zaphora wrote: :words:

so you know how Facebook will find pictures on your phone and ask if you want to post them. Well i open up Facebook one day and see a bunch of picts of my toys and almost had a heart attack. After a minor breakdown i see that it was just asking if i wanted to post them. crisis adverted, Delete all photos, We're good. Now if someone finds my alt imgur.............


Lol it reminded me of this August. I opened the social net app and it asked me if I wanted to tell everyone how my summer went and then there were several pics of my Xar. I stopped breathing for a couple of seconds :widesmile:
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Postby Coxi » Sun Sep 24, 2017 7:36 pm

I think when I was just 19 at least one if not both of my parents suspected me of using something as a vibe. I tried really hard to hide that I was using a vibrating razor as a weak external one, they were evangelicals, but I think they had a sneaking suspicion. One of them acted really weird toward me after I bought it for awhile, and it was really awkward. Oh man, if it was a Bad dragon they probably would have thrown me in a religious camp and told the other church members X3. Thank gods I do not need to worry about that anymore, I rarely interact with the family now.
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Postby puppyresidue » Mon Sep 25, 2017 3:16 pm

My folks know about these things more than I'd like them to, and for the most part couldn't care less. In fact, I'm pretty sure some of my lube has gone missing in the past. :surprised: Jeez, buy your own...

It's been the butt of jokes so often that it's not even considered abnormal to my family. Using an XL flared chance as a weapon at my job instead of the baseball bat we keep has been suggested at least 5 times. One of the few things I can say I appreciate about my family, if I'm honest, but hell, I'll take it :eyeroll:
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Postby Akanisen » Wed Sep 27, 2017 5:03 am

For reference my parents already know I have BD lube cause I've accidentally left it on the bathroom sink once before this. I told them I use it for my menstrual cup, which is the truth, but they also know I have a couple eggs (idk if they know of any other than that). And they don't approve of either (not even the menstrual cup :eyeroll: ).

Well about a week ago I accidentally left a near empty bottle of lube on the counter. Now, I had thought I had thrown it away cause for rhe next couple days I couldn't find it, until I found it on the shelf above our toilet that I know I didn't put it there. Well my mom finally brought it up a week later XD Made me laugh more than anything. She was like 'Do you know what you left on the counter that I put above the toilet?' to which I said yea I'm sorry I didn't mean to, then as she was walking away she just went 'You need to have your mind focused on other things'. I guess she forgot I use it for my menstrual cup but w/e it wasn't a bad conversation (or at least didn't feel bad, just a tad awkward) and if anything made me giggle.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Phelvia » Fri Sep 29, 2017 12:09 pm

Didn't think I could post anything bad here after last year.
Boy was I wrong. :unamused:
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I'm starting to regret ever getting involved with BadDragon. Since I have, my mom first blew up on me over it. Mainly about the money but how I have issues too. I moved out, but now my father and step mom think I have a mental illness and are trying to get me committed. So I moved out from there. I can't even look at any of my toys anymore and feel happy. I just feel regret and like I fucked up buying here in the first place.
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Postby Akanisen » Fri Sep 29, 2017 1:10 pm

Phelvia wrote:I'm starting to regret ever getting involved with BadDragon. Since I have, my mom first blew up on me over it. Mainly about the money but how I have issues too. I moved out, but now my father and step mom think I have a mental illness and are trying to get me committed. So I moved out from there. I can't even look at any of my toys anymore and feel happy. I just feel regret and like I fucked up buying here in the first place.

Holy shit. I am so fucking sorry. I know how it is to have a family like that (had to go to therapy cause I'm transgender and pansexual, almost got kicked out just cause I didn't think anal sex was a sin like my mom does). Whatever happens remember, it's them who have the issues if they think this is 'abnormal'.
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Postby Rainbow Dasher » Fri Sep 29, 2017 3:15 pm

Phelvia wrote: :words:


Damn! That's just... I don't have the proper words to convey how horribly sorry I am, or for how messed up the situation itself is. I don't know how much help it would be, but their threats of having you forcefully committed to an asylum are not only out of bounds, it's an empty threat. The only way they can forcibly commit you is if you are a proven danger to other people or yourself. So unless you are constantly trying to kill yourself or hurt/kill others, or you're so far gone mentally that you may as well be vegetative... They can't do squat to you; they're making idle threats, trying to scare you enough to where you'll "straighten up and fly right", so to speak.

I'm so sorry you're stuck in this mess.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Villie » Fri Sep 29, 2017 7:51 pm

Phelvia wrote:Didn't think I could post anything bad here after last year.
Boy was I wrong. :unamused:
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I'm starting to regret ever getting involved with BadDragon. Since I have, my mom first blew up on me over it. Mainly about the money but how I have issues too. I moved out, but now my father and step mom think I have a mental illness and are trying to get me committed. So I moved out from there. I can't even look at any of my toys anymore and feel happy. I just feel regret and like I fucked up buying here in the first place.


I'm sooooo sorry to hear all of that... them doubting your sanity or whatever over collecting silicone toys....
Even MLP stuff isn't bestiality... it's anthromorphic (human sentience etc) cartoon characters... Like, come on....
I can think fictional characters are hot, doesn't mean I'm gonna look at a cat and be like "yeah id fuck that" jfc...



Auuruhghgh that all sounds so upsetting and frustrating and just wow.
I just wanna say, I don't think you're doing anyhting illegal or borderline illegal at all. I don't think you're messed up or abnormal. I don't think you need "help". You haven't been doing anything bad and nothing about your collections makes me believe you're at risk of bestiality or something illegal, jfc. :doh:

I really feel for you and I hope you'll feel at peace again soon, augh :crying:



I've never been open about anything relating to my sex life or toys or whatever to any of my family members, and it sounds like it'd be best for you to keep that hidden from your family too. :unamused:
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Grayge » Sat Sep 30, 2017 1:43 am

Phelvia wrote: :words:


Each time I see something like this, it makes me lose a bit of hope in humanity. Seriously, how goddamn hard can it be to sometimes accept things at their face value and avoid making relationship-destroying conclusions? This is similar to the entire "video games like Doom cause school shootings", because apparently some people just can't comprehend the idea that liking something they don't like doesn't instantly make you a "fucked up" person.

You own some unusually shaped sex toys and have some cartoon pony porn. That's all they really know, but they somehow think they know something much more. It is ridiculous, delusional and quite frankly, offensive and demeaning to assume that they suddenly know everything that goes around someone's head just because they scratched the surface of someone's sexual interests. It is like finding out that someone owns a hunting rifle and then immediately thinking that they are going to murder someone.

You'd think a respectful parent would've talked about it with you like a sensible adult and then given you the benefit of the doubt. It is a matter of trust and respect that every parent should think about very carefully.

I am truly sorry that you have to go through all this.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Futa Princess » Sun Oct 01, 2017 4:12 am

Phelvia wrote:Didn't think I could post anything bad here after last year.
Boy was I wrong. :unamused:
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I'm starting to regret ever getting involved with BadDragon. Since I have, my mom first blew up on me over it. Mainly about the money but how I have issues too. I moved out, but now my father and step mom think I have a mental illness and are trying to get me committed. So I moved out from there. I can't even look at any of my toys anymore and feel happy. I just feel regret and like I fucked up buying here in the first place.



Oh my good god! And I thought strict religious parents where bad, I'm so sorry you are dealing with this right now :crying:

I hate people like that who think fiction = reality...whats worse with MLP people like that can also say you are a pedophile purely because its a kids/family cartoon. :unamused:

ffs, animal/fantasy dildos don't mean you (or anyone else who buys them) are a/into zoophlie/bestiality. And then they say that toxic jelly toys are "normal" cause "least its not animals!"

And chances are your dad and step mom are into the illegal shit they're accusing you of and using you as a scapegoat. (its usually like that when people toss out accusations that extreme)

Try to get a lawyer? I already see enough for them being sued for Defamation of Character, if they send any texts, emails, letters and so on save them, as hurtful it might be to read them it'll help your case.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby KnotyDes » Sun Oct 01, 2017 8:47 pm

Phelvia wrote: :words:

Wow, just, Wow.

I don't have words. All i can say is I am sorry that you have to deal with such a messed up situation.
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Postby NateTheNoodle » Sun Oct 01, 2017 10:32 pm

Phelvia wrote: :words:


hugs

Never, ever let anyone make you feel bad about what you enjoy, because you have no reason to feel bad about it. Don't take this bullshit laying down and show them how wrong they are.

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. NO ONE deserves to go through this.
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Postby dankdomme » Fri Oct 06, 2017 11:18 pm

Haven't had parents (I don't think?) find out. I'm not sure? Maybe... my mum does sometimes come into my room to put my belongings back in my room if I leave stuff around. That doesn't bother me but I think she may have seen some floggers or something laying about. Oops.
If she's seen them (they're kinda on display on my drawers) she hasn't said anything about it. I think my brother maybe has seen them? I assume he knows what they are anyway, judging by his interests haha.

But I have had (now ex) friends say to me "Um yeah it's kinda weird" and "Yeah coz you wanna fuck a dog"

As much as I would explain to them "No? This is a silicone dildo. It's not a real animal. That would be animal abuse" they would still judge me for it.
They know I'm kinky too but that wasn't much of an issue. But apparently a fantasy dildo is.

But whatever I'm having fun and save the monies for it so why not treat myself? :misc12:

My boyfriend doesn't care, he's used them on me before.

I've got a friend who is super into BD too, we started buying them at the same time and always do combined orders (shipping to Australia is craaazy) so at least I have someone else who knows I'm not 'crazy' for buying them hehe.
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