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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Must <3 monsters 97 » Sat Feb 03, 2018 4:29 pm

The closest things I had to toys when I was living with my parents was things I would rub up against. I never could have snuck in a toy without their extremely nosy and prudish selves finding it. One roommate I had knows I use regular adult novelties, and they said even if I owned one of those weird ones 'who cares'. Based on this person's family, including their own offspring, I was surprised to hear they were so calm about it. I do not intend to share that I plan to get some knotted toy though, just in case they assume the worst. A dragon based toy could be one thing, but something like diego, bumblehooves, or fenrir could be another.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby SkyWingFox » Mon Feb 26, 2018 7:25 pm

Okay, so I am almost positive my dad knows I have toys, but that is not what is worrying me. So my father and me both work at the same place and have the same name. The UPS guy sometimes delivers my dads packages to the shop, and not our home address.

So I'm grinding away on a pair of motorcycle handlebars we manufacture, and I look up to see my dad standing there with a 13 lb box of silicone. (unopened, thank the gods). I had a mini panic attack.

I snatched the box and started to head for the door, to deposit it safely in my car. He asked what it was, as I knew he would. I quickly muttered something about buying something for a friend of mine. (Not suspicious at all right?)

After a few minutes I was starting to calm down, only to realize that when the package arrived, it had to go through our shipping department. Our innocent shipping lady who works on my side of the building had to have received the package first.
That would not have bothered me if the label didn't say "Silicone Sculpture" so obviously.

It's been a month now, and I think I can stop worrying. But from now on I'm using FedEx.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby KnotyDes » Mon Feb 26, 2018 9:04 pm

SkyWingFox wrote: :words:

i have had a similar story. Back in the day. I ordered something from Adam & Eve and had it send to my home address, no problem. Except they put me on their mailing letter, which was sent to the address on my credit card, which happens to be my family auto shop. that was fun. this also happened with a company Nasco which sells J-lube cheap. that was much easier to pass off.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby ShadeTheWolf94 » Fri Apr 27, 2018 3:59 am

Well. The cat's out of the bag now, so I guess I can add my story.

My best friend of 10 years and I, who consider eachother sisters, got our first BD's ever this last christmas. We called it our "BD Christmas" and even joked about putting our "fellas" in our stockings. XD
My boyfriend also knows and wants his own, so the three of us are just peachy.

Family is another matter!

Fast foreward a month or two, I was stressing myself silly over the what if's, super over the rop paranoid about how my mom, who I am very very close to, would feel if she ever found out that I have and plan to purchase more fantasy animal toys.

Long story short since she and my stepdad are the ones who bought me my first vibe, and my mom and I have always showed off our "normal" toys to eachother, I took the leap.
I flat-out told her what I got for Christmas and showed her the website, all while sweating bullets and praying that she wouldn't bite my head off.
She didn't! She was very patient and was very interested in how BD toys are made, what they are made of, and how BD is the best known custom toy company there is.
She told me that it is completely normal for me to be into this stuff, and that she doesn't care what I use as long as I am careful and safe and my boyfriend takes good care of me. That put my mind on ease for sure, and possibly even got Bad Dragon a new buyer. :p

Having said that, it hurts me to know how alot of you guys's families reacted to you. I feel guilty knowing how easy of a reaction I got.
Good luck to you all and may you find peace and happiness.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby KungisGalo » Mon May 21, 2018 8:20 am

ShadeTheWolf94 wrote: :words:

I appreaciate the wholesomeness of your closing statement. Your fam sound rad.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby BorisLover » Mon May 21, 2018 10:51 pm

I'm not as shy as I used to be about my sexuality and toys, but I'm still careful who I show and tell.
But last night, I had a great conversation with my new housemate who is really sex positive and we ended up talking about toys and sex in general. I was so happy to have someone to talk so openly to, that I asked if she'd like to see one of my dildos (haha!) and went and grabbed my small cockatrice.
She was so insanely fascinated by the toy and was asking where I bought it from, how did I find such a place etc etc.

Most reactions I've received have been positive, or at least neutral. The worst was from ex boyfriends actually.
Some of my non immediate family know through an unfortunate turn of events, when I was living with them, and they still occasionally give me shit for it even today. At the time I reacted SO over the top and made it worse. If I had behaved nonchalant, it would have probably simmered down real fast.
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-Sitting on couch browsing bad dragon forums on my phone -
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"Now I really want to know what it is ! "
"No seriously ! Do not look it up! Ignore it!"
- Aunty and other cousin in background - "Whats that? Bad dragon? What is that??"
/Died.

Later on my cousin approached me with a stupid grin on her face and said she looked it up and told her bf as well.
Her bf was RUTHLESS.

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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Must <3 monsters 97 » Wed Jun 06, 2018 7:00 pm

I'm sure someone will when I start building my collection. I know too many people who have no regard for other people's privacy. I do fear what they would think of me, but at the same time if they get a little traumatized by anthro silicocks, that's their own fault for snooping.
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Postby HorizonFalls » Tue Jun 12, 2018 12:27 pm

Ahhh Here I am again...

My ISP sent engineers over to fit fibre-optic cables to my house to bring the internet here into the 2000s. I wasn't aware they'd be in my bedroom while I was at work. Toy cleaner and cum lube in the open, my toys thankfully covered still by my t-shirt (though it has been moved :smilenox: ). Apparently they went into different rooms to test the wireless signal. Only then did my parents tell me that they too went into my room to tidy it before the engineers went into there. Slightly more embarrassed.

My parents are cool, and I'll never begrudge anyone who wants to clean my room (I thought it was alright but apparently it needs dusting Ha), but I wish I had a bit of notice to stow away the valuables :eyeroll:
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Postby Kreature » Tue Jun 12, 2018 4:36 pm

Must <3 monsters 97 wrote:I'm sure someone will when I start building my collection. I know too many people who have no regard for other people's privacy. I do fear what they would think of me, but at the same time if they get a little traumatized by anthro silicocks, that's their own fault for snooping.


I'm in the same boat. A part of me is terrified that someone will find my toy, yet another part of me is like, "whatever, it's their fault for not minding their business." Ugh, I can only imagine how my family would react.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby BigTee » Sat Jul 14, 2018 7:10 pm

My mom, maybe. Father, yes. Brother, evidently

So i was coming from the shower after washing Lily. So as i got out of the shower, I left Lily wrapped up in my towel to hide her as i left the restroom. I come back, my mother is on my desktop, unaware of Lily, i set it on my bed and stay calm. I accidently left the back end of Lily exposed (go me). My mother asked "Whats this" i respone "...clothes..." and walk off with lily. She let out a disapointing sigh.

As for my brother, I dont remember why I had the cum lube my bed. It was in pile of my clean clothes from washing. My brother bursts through my room, looking for...sonething. I wasnt paying mind to him, all i heard "Iiiiinteresting" in the most amused tone ive heard from him. He didnt mention it, and just left my room.

As for my dad, i was sitting down at my desk waiting for a game to load. I pick up duke butt and just fondle with, you know. Just sqeeze it while waiting. All of a sudden my dad burst through my door without knocking. I play it off and "and scratch my feet". My dad asks "What was that blue thing?". I was respond "what thing?" And i continue gaming. "Son...just show it to me". So i show him duke butt, thankfully just the back end which is a plain hole, i told him its just a "stress relief thing". My dad laughs at me (he was alwasy a bully in a way). "Man you really need a girlfriend". Well im 8 years and counting, i never cared for a GF to be honest. He comments "I used to do the same thing son, ill keep it to myself". Chill, but dude...LEARN TO KNOCK. From then i always lock my door

I need to move, but in this financial criss called student debt and unemployment, i dont see that happening
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Postby Cynic Dickic » Thu Jul 19, 2018 1:31 pm

BigTee wrote:I need to move, but in this financial criss called student debt and unemployment, i dont see that happening

I know the feeling man. My parents found out almost immediately because papers fell off the box when I was bringing it in and I didn't notice, and they're adament about not letting me get any more. They're very snoopy too, I tried ordering some new ones recently but my mom saw the Paypal e-mail before I deleted it (I don't have a credit card so I use Paypal) and immediately knew what I was going to use it for.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Tallon » Fri Jul 20, 2018 3:29 am

My in-laws, who unfortunately live with us due to their financial problems, haven't given me problems yet, even though the goddamn packages say "silicone sculpture" on it when I forget to order through Fedex. The trouble is using them with the guarantee of privacy. My father-in-law stays up well past two AM, and during that time he's likely to come down to my basement either to "let the dogs out" or bum a cigar. So I have to wait until *everyone* is in bed before I toy. Otherwise, I can just imagine getting a knock on my door at two AM when I have five dildos and lube lined up on my table.


I have the Bad Dragon tankard, which I use for tea (I drink enormous amounts of the stuff), but no one has noticed/cared enough to look it up yet.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Pasdebol » Fri Jul 20, 2018 8:32 am

Tallon wrote:... Otherwise, I can just imagine getting a knock on my door at two AM when I have five dildos and lube lined up on my table.

Why would he knock at your door at 2AM?
Because you're too noisy when having fun? :widesmile:
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Tallon » Fri Jul 20, 2018 2:26 pm

Pasdebol wrote:
Tallon wrote:... Otherwise, I can just imagine getting a knock on my door at two AM when I have five dildos and lube lined up on my table.

Why would he knock at your door at 2AM?
Because you're too noisy when having fun? :widesmile:



LOL. I *wish* I could be noisy, but no. He comes downstairs to my basement because he thinks the dogs need to be let out or he wants a cigar from me. Bah.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Willow » Fri Jul 20, 2018 6:35 pm

Tallon wrote:
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Tallon wrote:... Otherwise, I can just imagine getting a knock on my door at two AM when I have five dildos and lube lined up on my table.

Why would he knock at your door at 2AM?
Because you're too noisy when having fun? :widesmile:



LOL. I *wish* I could be noisy, but no. He comes downstairs to my basement because he thinks the dogs need to be let out or he wants a cigar from me. Bah.


Tell him to buy his own damn cigars. No solution for the dogs though.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Ghost_the_Crow » Sat Jul 21, 2018 1:11 am

Willow wrote:
Tallon wrote:
Pasdebol wrote:Why would he knock at your door at 2AM?
Because you're too noisy when having fun? :widesmile:



LOL. I *wish* I could be noisy, but no. He comes downstairs to my basement because he thinks the dogs need to be let out or he wants a cigar from me. Bah.


Tell him to buy his own damn cigars. No solution for the dogs though.


If you had a Rex throw it at him and say you already let the dogs out. Alternatively (one of) your Roland(s) could work as well.

Ok but seriously, even though I leave some of my toys on my shelves I wouldn’t want someone to walk in while toying.
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Postby Tallon » Sat Jul 21, 2018 1:31 am

Ghost_the_Crow wrote:
Willow wrote:
Tallon wrote:

LOL. I *wish* I could be noisy, but no. He comes downstairs to my basement because he thinks the dogs need to be let out or he wants a cigar from me. Bah.


Tell him to buy his own damn cigars. No solution for the dogs though.


If you had a Rex throw it at him and say you already let the dogs out. Alternatively (one of) your Roland(s) could work as well.

Ok but seriously, even though I leave some of my toys on my shelves I wouldn’t want someone to walk in while toying.



To be honest, I don't know how my in-laws would react to seeing my collection. They (especially my father-law) have no problem with porn, and my sister-in-law sells sex toys as a side business and they have no problem with that. Those toys are the pretty standard vibrators and masturbators and such, nothing so outlandish as BD. I think they might question my sanity a little... but they've always done that. I figure as long as things stay hidden and locked away, and I have my spouse in my corner, I don't have to worry too much. It's just frustrating having to wait until the whole household is asleep before I play.
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Postby Willow » Sat Jul 21, 2018 4:20 pm

Tallon wrote:
Ghost_the_Crow wrote:
Willow wrote:
Tell him to buy his own damn cigars. No solution for the dogs though.


If you had a Rex throw it at him and say you already let the dogs out. Alternatively (one of) your Roland(s) could work as well.

Ok but seriously, even though I leave some of my toys on my shelves I wouldn’t want someone to walk in while toying.



To be honest, I don't know how my in-laws would react to seeing my collection. They (especially my father-law) have no problem with porn, and my sister-in-law sells sex toys as a side business and they have no problem with that. Those toys are the pretty standard vibrators and masturbators and such, nothing so outlandish as BD. I think they might question my sanity a little... but they've always done that. I figure as long as things stay hidden and locked away, and I have my spouse in my corner, I don't have to worry too much. It's just frustrating having to wait until the whole household is asleep before I play.

I kinda feel your pain, I have to wait until the person I'm living with goes to bed or out for an extended period of time to play. And sometimes I am just not in the mood to do so. He doesn't often barge in, but he just pops up randomly so never sure I can safely do anything.
Pretty sure he knows I have sex toys, but never seen my BD. Feels crazy that when I get a package I have to intercept it, then when I throw the BD bag in my personal trashcan, cut out the address from the the box (and throw in that my personal trashcan) and then throw the box in the recycle bin. I've caught him snooping through my trash before, so I'm careful what and where I throw my trash away.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby Tallon » Sun Jul 22, 2018 1:55 am

Willow wrote:
Tallon wrote:
Ghost_the_Crow wrote:
If you had a Rex throw it at him and say you already let the dogs out. Alternatively (one of) your Roland(s) could work as well.

Ok but seriously, even though I leave some of my toys on my shelves I wouldn’t want someone to walk in while toying.



To be honest, I don't know how my in-laws would react to seeing my collection. They (especially my father-law) have no problem with porn, and my sister-in-law sells sex toys as a side business and they have no problem with that. Those toys are the pretty standard vibrators and masturbators and such, nothing so outlandish as BD. I think they might question my sanity a little... but they've always done that. I figure as long as things stay hidden and locked away, and I have my spouse in my corner, I don't have to worry too much. It's just frustrating having to wait until the whole household is asleep before I play.

I kinda feel your pain, I have to wait until the person I'm living with goes to bed or out for an extended period of time to play. And sometimes I am just not in the mood to do so. He doesn't often barge in, but he just pops up randomly so never sure I can safely do anything.
Pretty sure he knows I have sex toys, but never seen my BD. Feels crazy that when I get a package I have to intercept it, then when I throw the BD bag in my personal trashcan, cut out the address from the the box (and throw in that my personal trashcan) and then throw the box in the recycle bin. I've caught him snooping through my trash before, so I'm careful what and where I throw my trash away.
I value my privacy... I have so little currently.


You have to admit... snooping through someone else's personal trashcan is a little... creepy. And demented.
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Re: Have your parents/room mates ever found out?

Postby SparkyRaegun » Sun Jul 22, 2018 9:36 am

I've never had anyone find out, mainly because the only "toy" I had was an electric toothbrush and it wasn't used much nor did my mother snoop. However there was one time when I was 14 and I ordered a lip balm from amazon and she opened the rectangular box, probably thinking that it was a toy because it was a slender, longer box. That was a fun interaction since she had never opened one of my packages and I already knew based on the size of the box what she thought it was-

But I'll be taking some advice from this thread-! I have the idea that since I got a new MSI computer recently, and the computer box not only had a dragon on it ( lmao ) but that it also had little compartment areas ( like for the charger, booklet, adapter ) that they would probably be a perfect space, and they even have a piece of cardboard that comes down to close and everything, and I can just use that since, well, she's never snooped before and I don't feel like she would be angry at me or flip or anything like that.

I guess you could say I'm one of the lucky ones, huh? Only time will tell if she ever finds the stuff I've yet to buy. :nomnom:
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