Postby Grimly Fiendish » Sun May 03, 2020 4:02 am
Sounds like you are hitting the entrance to the sigmoid bend. I'm not a huge fan of going deeper than that (I like toys that are 8 inches "usable inches" or less). Depth play is physically and mentally interesting and it's a trip to go past the sigmoid bend, and it's definitely worth trying depth play for yourself. I've experimented with depth play and decided it's not for me. I don't want to go past the sigmoid bend - it means deeper cleaning, and I've irritated the entrance before. Sometimes, people here have referred to it as a 2nd sphincter.
Depth play (lets say anything over 10-11 usable inches) seems to add an additional element of risk (maybe that's only in my imagination) and for me, most of the nerve endings are around my entrance. But when I'm only 'knocking on the door' of the sigmoid bend ("2nd sphincter") hilting a a toy that's 7.5 or 8 inches long, , my mind kind of goes blank, and I kind of grunt a little.
I hope that made sense...