Aithnerikain wrote:I'm pretty new to toys and all.. and masturbation (female)
But I just -can't- seem to find this mythical g-spot all the other ladies talk about, and I can sit there and grind my toy vibe for literally HOURS without even feeling anything, I have to put the vibe against the clitoris before I feel anything (and it's small and hides way back in those folds :< )
No worries. I had a vague idea where it was over the last year or so, but I didn't really *feel* intense sensations from my g-spot until last night, and I've been masturbating for four years.
All I can say is... like orgasming, if you've found your g-spot, you'll know it. For me it doesn't do much on its own [it does do SOMETHING, but not enough to get off on], but combined with clit stim, it's like insta-orgasm.
I'll say that it took a very particular shape of dildo for me to find it. Unfortunately the toy I used to discover my g-spot has been discontinued, but this is the shape in case you were curious:
I wish it wasn't discontinued... I'm a bit of a size queen [not compared to some ladies here, but compared to most ladies] and thought it was a bit small, but the hardness and quality of the toy made up for it. I have a habit of pushing toys out when I orgasm and this did not budge. Love it, and really sorry that I can't really recommend it because it's not for sale anymore. :(
After finding my g-spot, I've found that using my Vixskin Johnny works well for stimulation with thrusting [the ridge of the head in particular], and I think the Karabos would be too if it wasn't so damn thick all around.
Just a hint... the spongey tissue advice that I keep reading didn't help me find it at all. I think it's more helpful to put your finger[s] in, find your pubic bone, and then try to curl your fingers around it. All women are different but that's what helped me find it.
Hope that was helpful :)