
I am thinking of getting the Breeder, but I am having trouble thinking of the most enjoyable and safe combination of size and hardness. My thought was that if I got a large in the softest it would be flexible enough to be taken safely. My other thought was that it might be hard to use because of softness. Medium seems a safe way to go, but I'm worried that if I get a large in medium softness it would be too rigid.
Does anybody have the large Breeder? Can you offer any advice/experiences with your toy that might help?
Same for the medium Breeder?
I am experienced with anal play, to a reasonable point. I have some large toys, and I've been able to work my way up to them (couldn't take all of them at first), but either way the circumference is going to be more than I've ever taken--I do enjoy a challenge, I just want to make the best decision (considering the cost) right from the start. If length were the only concern, it'd be large all the way. That knot, though... It's exciting and intimidating on both sizes!